Forgiveness.

If I were to forgive someone in my past for doing me wrong and lying to me for the past few years I believe nothing would have changed. I believe this because that person was truly cruel and hurt me so bad that I do not even think that it mattered to him that he did. I wish I could make the situation change by forgiving him but I forgave him all the time and he would hurt me over and over again. I do not believe that forgiving this person could have changed anything because it never did and never has. I have forgiven them for hurting me but I will not forget what he did to me because it honestly made me a stronger person. I never thought it was possible to be hurt so bad and to feel like my heart was being ripped out of my chest. I forgive by not feeling hatred toward the person that hurt me but I do not forget what the person did because if I did it would just happen over and over again.

Companionship and Love.

There are many reasons why companionship and love are an important part of the human experience. One reason why they are important is because if there is no love then how would anyone be happy. From my own experience I know that when I am loved or can love someone, I am happy. There is no scientific reason as to why this is, it just is. A reason why companionship is important is because no one wants to be alone or abandoned. When people are alone or abandoned they feel like they are not worth anyones time. This can scar someone emotionally because they may feel like no one cares about  them and it makes them wonder if it will feel like that forever. My friends are the people that make me happy and know that I can depend on someone when I need them. They are the people that make my life worth while when I feel like no one has the ability to do so. Companionship is to be in love. To be in love there has to be companionship. They are hand in hand and are essential to everyones life.

Rejection.

Many girls may feel like they have been rejected by someone they like because that person has interest in someone else. This can hurt a girls feelings because the person they like may not realize how much they would do for them or how much they care for them.
These are some things girls say about their past let downs from a boy they have liked but turned them down:
"I was sad and wanted to hurt the other girls feelings because she is the reason he hurt mine. I was mad too."
"When he dated my best friend I was mad but I didn't do anything about it because I was not going to end my friendship with somebody over a stupid boy."
"I felt disappointed and unwanted.I wanted to give up and seclude myself from everything."
"I felt not good enough and I just wanted to sleep. I also wanted to tell him 'thanks for leading me on'."
Sometimes girls will become unfocused on school and other events and will become emotionally distraught. They start to believe that they are not good enough, pretty enough, or worth that persons time. I do not think guys realize how they can hurt a girls feelings but eventually girls move on because they know they deserve better.